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Introduction

You'll need two things from the couple: their wedding website address, and an invitation code. The address ends in wedded.me and looks something like yournames.wedded.me. The code is printed with it, often one code for the household.

There is no app to download. You use the website in your browser. If you create a guest account when you reply, come back with the same email and password.

I'm a guest, where's my wedding?

Wedding websites are not listed in search, so searching for the couple's names will not find the page.

On weddedway.com, choose Invited to a wedding? That page is headed Invited to a wedding? and explains how to find your couple's address.

  1. Find the address on your invitation or save-the-date.
  2. Open it in your browser. Type it into the address bar at the top, not a search box.
  3. Enter your invitation code. Choose RSVP, type the code, and continue. If you're coming, you'll create a guest account. Already registered? Log in with the email you used.

If you can't see an address on the invitation, ask the couple to send it.

Join and send your reply

On the couple's website:

  1. Choose RSVP. Sign in is the other tab, for when you already have an account.
  2. Enter the Invitation code and choose Continue. One code is often shared for the same part of the day. Capital letters don't matter.
  3. Answer Will you be attending? with Yes, I'll be there or Sorry, I can't make it.
  4. Add your First name and Last name.
  5. If you chose Yes, I'll be there, also add the email you'll use to log in and Choose a password. Dietary notes, plus-ones and any extra questions are there when the couple has asked for them. Choose Submit RSVP. If we email you a check, the button says Verify email and submit RSVP. You then land on your wedding page for that couple.
  6. If you chose Sorry, I can't make it, choose Send reply. You only need the invitation code and your name — no email, password, or email check, and you aren't sent to a guest page. Confirmation says They've got your reply. and You're marked as not coming.

If you created an account, you can sign in again later and change your reply until the couple closes it. Meal choices and accommodation, if the couple has turned them on, are not on this first form. They appear under Your reply after you're in.

What to do next

Once you're in, your wedding page is where you update the reply, see the day, and read news.